5 reasons condom should be your best friend

“Piece of mind” after sex

I know this is not new to you. Ever found yourself regretting after doing sex with a person you met lately? What questions do you ask yourself? It can take even three days to forget the regret and sometimes it can take your piece away for a month.

 

 

The fear of STDs and unplanned pregnancy is real and can depress you. Leave alone the risk of being scammed especially by school ladies? Wait a second… How about when you use a condom, how do you feel? Peaceful?

 

Remember one thing, good sex is not only about how you feel while doing it but also how you feel after. The piece of mind.

 

Pleasure increases during sex

Research shows that the sense of security while doing sex is the reason for pleasure. While your lover can agree to do sex with you without condom, he/she will still feel that insecurity which will then interfere with the way he/she release himself to you.

 

Using condom makes both partners feel comfortable and hence cooperative to each other, which makes sex pleasurable.

 

If you want to enjoy alone, for a short time, you can take the risk and do it without condom but if you want the sex engagement and cooperation, use condom, that’s how you enjoy it to the maximum.

 

You don’t ejaculate when you use condom? Well that’s always more psychological than physical. It doesn’t require treatment, you just need to practice more to be able to cum. Your mind and presence plays a big role. Change your mind, engage yourself, enjoy sex and you will cum.

 

It builds trust from your partner

If you use condom with him or her, it means you use it with others. That’s a great factor for someone to trust you, especially a woman. Ever met someone who tells you they don’t enjoy sex with a condom hence they don’t want it? How do you judge them when they say that? What comes into your mind first?

 

“Oh, so this person doesn’t use condom in most of his encounters, now what’s his HIV status?” The moment someone asks themselves like that it means her/his trust in you falls short and don’t be surprised if he/she doesn’t check you again after the first encounter.

 

Someone has been avoiding you these days? Be careful, maybe they lost trust in you. A habit of condom use is what makes playboys mostly fought for by girls. Remember, people talk about you. Make condom use your culture.

 

It promotes accountability for each other’s life

Using condom means you want to protect yourself and your partner from unexpected issues. That gives you and your partner the sense of responsibility.

 

You feel it in your brains and your partner also sees you as a responsible person and hence she/he will find you more attractive. Who doesn’t admire a responsible person?

 

The community and life in general rewards responsible people. Imagine meeting someone for the first time or after a long time and you don’t feel the need to protect yourself? What level of negligence can you call it? It’s unexplainable and if you can do that, chances are high that your partner will lose that love for you. Why? Because you can’t protect yourself! How will you protect them in the future?

 

Avoiding unplanned pregnancy

We all love kids but is it planned? You know the shock when someone tells they are pregnant and you only did sex for fun? Meaning you didn’t plan to have any future with the person and it was just one night stand.

 

That’s the main reason for many abortions and increase in street children. For sure, it’s not pleasant to receive pregnancy news from a woman who is not your “dream-woman”. But why would you put yourself in such risks? Why not make a condom use your culture and avoid unnecessary trauma?

 

Most of the times, unplanned kids end up with poor future either due to father’s denial or breakup from the parents because it’s obvious they didn’t love each other.

 

Finally…

Make a condom your friend. Make it priority. Walk with it, look for it whenever you’re going for a quickie or one night stand. Avoid partners who don’t want to use condoms as long as you’re not living together or have not done health check-ups.

 

Unprotected sex should be your phobia. You should despise it since it’s a source of stress. Who wants unnecessary stress after sex? That’s why condom is part of my daily travel pack because I am responsible and girls love me for that.

 

Note: A risk of pregnancy and STIs increases due to either condom burst or failure to use the condom correctly. Make sure you use your condom correctly and if burst happens, you still have a chance. First, if sperms spilled in you, you can always go for a morning-after pill, which when taken in 72 hours after-sex will prevent unplanned pregnancy.

 

Second, if you suspect HIV infection, go to the hospital and request a PEP (post exposure prophylaxis). This goes in hand with rape cases.

 

For women: Contraceptive pills may protect you from pregnancy, but not sexually transmitted diseases. Condom should still be your priority.

 

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